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		<title>Your wounds declare your love for the world</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 08:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is the Fifth Sunday of Easter. In this week&#8217;s reflection on our Collect, I want us to think a little about what it meant for the human Jesus to willingly suffer the agonies of crucifixion &#8212; for us. The crucifixion of Jesus was a truly horrific event. You don&#8217;t have to look too hard [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>oday is the Fifth Sunday of Easter. In this week&#8217;s reflection on our Collect, I want us to think a little about what it meant for the human Jesus to willingly suffer the agonies of crucifixion &#8212; for us.</p>
<p>The crucifixion of Jesus was a truly horrific event. You don&#8217;t have to look too hard on the internet to find a graphic description of what happens to the human body in a crucifixion: there are many websites that will happily serve that up for you, and take great delight in doing so, no matter how it might make you feel. As far as I can see, though, most of what&#8217;s available appears to be condensed from <em>“The Crucifixion of Jesus Christ” by C. Truman Davis, M.S. March, 1965</em>. </p>
<p>One such page can be found on the <a href="http://www.ethoughts.org/">ethoughts</a> website. It has what it claims to be a medical description of the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, which has a warning at the top, &#8220;This may disturb you, so don&#8217;t read it if you don&#8217;t want to; it&#8217;s pretty horrific&#8230;&#8221;. If, after reading that warning, you still want to read the page, you can find it by <a href="http://www.ethoughts.org/crucifixion_description.htm">clicking here</a>.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s the reality of what crucifixion is that actually makes the whole event even more remarkable. Jesus would have known all about the horrors of crucifixion. It was something the Romans had been doing all too frequently for a number of years, and others had used it as a punishment before them too. Jesus and his disciples would have seen many people hanging from crosses as they journeyed around the Holy Land. He would have known the agonies and horrors the victims of crucifixion suffered. He would have seen it with his own eyes, and heard it with his own ears &#8212; and smelled it with his own nose. In that land, at that time, it would have been unavoidable.</p>
<p>Even so, knowing what he would face, Jesus still went to Jerusalem, where he would put himself in the most danger. He could have gone anywhere. Jesus could have avoided what was to happen. But he didn’t. He willingly gave himself up knowing full well what doing so would mean.</p>
<p>Why? Why would any man do that? The answer is “Love”. Love for the world; Love for those around him; and Love for each and every one of us. He opened wide his arms on the cross for us, because he loves us. His wounds, what he suffered on the cross, are proof of that love for the world &#8212; his wounds declare his love for the world.</p>
<p>Jesus loves each and every one of us so much, that he was willing to die an agonizing death on the cross for us. He once said, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends…” <em>(<a href="http://bible.oremus.org/?ql=139656234">John 15:13-14a</a>)</em>.</p>
<p>We are his friends, and he laid down his life for us; because he loves us.</p>
<blockquote><p>Risen Christ,<br />
your wounds declare your love for the world<br />
and the wonder of your risen life:<br />
give us compassion and courage<br />
to risk ourselves for those we serve,<br />
to the glory of God the Father.</p>
<p align="right"><cite>Additional Collect for The Fifth Sunday of Easter<br /> is <a href="http://www.cofe.anglican.org/" alt="Link to Church of England Website" title="Link to Church of England Website">Copyright © The Archbishops Council</a></cite></p>
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		<title>Inspire us to follow their example</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2010 09:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The clocks went back last night, at least here in the UK, which means the darkness closes in around us earlier, and the nights seem so much longer. Tomorrow is the 1st November, All Saints&#8217; Day. At Godmanchester, along with many Churches, we always transfer this important festival to the nearest Sunday. I&#8217;m doing the [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>he clocks went back last night, at least here in the UK, which means the darkness closes in around us earlier, and the nights seem so much longer. Tomorrow is the 1st November, All Saints&#8217; Day. At Godmanchester, along with many Churches, we always transfer this important festival to the nearest Sunday. I&#8217;m doing the same here too.</p>
<p>November can be a time of despair; fallen leaves, rain, dampness and fog, with little else ahead but the dismal winter. But the festival of All Saints’, which we celebrate today, shines like a ray of sunshine at the beginning of these dark days.</p>
<p>All Saints’ Day brings to mind the ordinary people down the ages who were friends of God. The people who didn’t hold important positions in life. Their names don’t appear on the Church’s official role of honour. They’re not canonized saints. But God remembers them.</p>
<p>They’re the common people from all walks of life, who in their day tried to live the Christian life to the full. They’re our family, and our friends. And, like us, they experienced the trials of growing up, the tensions of living with others, and all the normal difficulties and uncertainties of life. They had to cope with their own personal problems and weaknesses. However great their difficulties and faults, they accepted that God loved them and relied on the strength of that love more than anything else.</p>
<p>As we follow in the steps of our friends and family, saints, who have gone before us; we also get a glimpse into our own glorious future, our eternal destiny. As we honour the vast army of God’s friends, we also ask God’s favour, that where they are now, so we too may be in the future. We pray that one day this will be our feast as well.</p>
<blockquote><p>God of holiness,<br />
your glory is proclaimed in every age:<br />
as we rejoice in the faith of your saints,<br />
inspire us to follow their example<br />
with boldness and joy;<br />
through Jesus Christ our Lord.</p>
<p align="right"><cite>Additional Collect for All Saints&#8217; Day<br /> is <a href="http://www.cofe.anglican.org/" alt="Link to Church of England Website" title="Link to Church of England Website">Copyright © The Archbishops Council</a></cite></p>
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		<title>With A Little Help From My Friends</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 08:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The legend that is Joe Cocker has been around for as long as I&#8217;ve been listening to music &#8212; and is still going strong, having just released another album. But he has always been at his best when playing live on stage. I found this video of him singing the classic, With A Little Help [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>he legend that is <a href="http://www.cocker.com">Joe Cocker</a> has been around for as long as I&#8217;ve been listening to music &#8212; and is still going strong, having just released another album. But he has always been at his best when playing live on stage. I found this video of him singing the classic, <em>With A Little Help From My Friends</em>, live at a concert in Berlin in 1980. It still sends shivers down my spine when I listen to it.</p>
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		<title>Your wounds declare your love for the world</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 08:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is the Fifth Sunday of Easter. In this week&#8217;s reflection on our Collect, I want us to think a little about what it meant for the human Jesus to willingly suffer the agonies of crucifixion &#8212; for us. The crucifixion of Jesus was a truly horrific event. You don&#8217;t have to look too hard [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>oday is the Fifth Sunday of Easter. In this week&#8217;s reflection on our Collect, I want us to think a little about what it meant for the human Jesus to willingly suffer the agonies of crucifixion &#8212; for us.</p>
<p>The crucifixion of Jesus was a truly horrific event. You don&#8217;t have to look too hard on the internet to find a graphic description of what happens to the human body in a crucifixion: there are many websites that will happily serve that up for you, and take great delight in doing so, no matter how it might make you feel. As far as I can see, though, most of what&#8217;s available appears to be condensed from <em>“The Crucifixion of Jesus Christ” by C. Truman Davis, M.S. March, 1965</em>. </p>
<p>One such page can be found on the <a href="http://www.ethoughts.org/">ethoughts</a> website. It has what it claims to be a medical description of the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, which has a warning at the top, &#8220;This may disturb you, so don&#8217;t read it if you don&#8217;t want to; it&#8217;s pretty horrific&#8230;&#8221;. If, after reading that warning, you still want to read the page, you can find it by <a href="http://www.ethoughts.org/crucifixion_description.htm">clicking here</a>.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s the reality of what crucifixion is that actually makes the whole event even more remarkable. Jesus would have known all about the horrors of crucifixion. It was something the Romans had been doing all too frequently for a number of years, and others had used it as a punishment before them too. Jesus and his disciples would have seen many people hanging from crosses as they journeyed around the Holy Land. He would have known the agonies and horrors the victims of crucifixion suffered. He would have seen it with his own eyes, and heard it with his own ears &#8212; and smelled it with his own nose. In that land, at that time, it would have been unavoidable.</p>
<p>Even so, knowing what he would face, Jesus still went to Jerusalem, where he would put himself in the most danger. He could have gone anywhere. Jesus could have avoided what was to happen. But he didn’t. He willingly gave himself up knowing full well what doing so would mean.</p>
<p>Why? Why would any man do that? The answer is “Love”. Love for the world; Love for those around him; and Love for each and every one of us. He opened wide his arms on the cross for us, because he loves us. His wounds, what he suffered on the cross, are proof of that love for the world &#8212; his wounds declare his love for the world.</p>
<p>Jesus loves each and every one of us so much, that he was willing to die an agonizing death on the cross for us. He once said, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends…” <em>(<a href="http://bible.oremus.org/?ql=139656234">John 15:13-14a</a>)</em>.</p>
<p>We are his friends, and he laid down his life for us; because he loves us.</p>
<blockquote><p>Risen Christ,<br />
your wounds declare your love for the world<br />
and the wonder of your risen life:<br />
give us compassion and courage<br />
to risk ourselves for those we serve,<br />
to the glory of God the Father.</p>
<p align="right"><cite>Additional Collect for The Fifth Sunday of Easter<br /> is <a href="http://www.cofe.anglican.org/" alt="Link to Church of England Website" title="Link to Church of England Website">Copyright © The Archbishops Council</a></cite></p>
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		<title>Prayer for a Friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 09:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The more I hear of the Casting Crowns, the more I like them. This is a great song, and, more importantly, a great prayer which says just what I needed. It comes from their album, &#8220;The Altar and the Door&#8221;. Lord I lift my friend to you: You and he know who he is.]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>he more I hear of the <a href="http://castingcrowns.com/">Casting Crowns</a>, the more I like them. This is a great song, and, more importantly, a great prayer which says just what I needed. It comes from their album, &#8220;The Altar and the Door&#8221;.</p>
<p>Lord I lift my friend to you: You and he know who he is.</p>
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		<title>Inspire us to follow their example</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 09:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The clocks went back last weekend, at least here in the UK, which means the darkness closes in around us earlier, and the nights seem so much longer. The weather has been unseasonably mild this year, but that all looks set to change from today, and the weather will become much more autumnal. November can [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="drop-cap">T</span>he clocks went back last weekend, at least here in the UK, which means the darkness closes in around us earlier, and the nights seem so much longer. The weather has been unseasonably mild this year, but that all looks set to change from today, and the weather will become much more autumnal. </p>
<p>November can be a time of despair; fallen leaves, rain, dampness and fog, with little else ahead but the dismal winter. But the festival of All Saints’, which we celebrate today, shines like a ray of sunshine at the beginning of these dark days.</p>
<p>All Saints’ Day brings to mind the ordinary people down the ages who were friends of God. The people who didn’t hold important positions in life. Their names don’t appear on the Church’s official role of honour. They’re not canonized saints. But God remembers them.</p>
<p>They’re the common people from all walks of life, who in their day tried to live the Christian life to the full. They’re our family, and our friends. And, like us, they experienced the trials of growing up, the tensions of living with others, and all the normal difficulties and uncertainties of life. They had to cope with their own personal problems and weaknesses. However great their difficulties and faults, they accepted that God loved them and relied on the strength of that love more than anything else.</p>
<p>As we follow in the steps of our friends and family, saints, who have gone before us; we also get a glimpse into our own glorious future, our eternal destiny. As we honour the vast army of God’s friends, we also ask God’s favour, that where they are now, so we too may be in the future. We pray that one day this will be our feast as well.</p>
<blockquote><p>God of holiness,<br />
your glory is proclaimed in every age:<br />
as we rejoice in the faith of your saints,<br />
inspire us to follow their example<br />
with boldness and joy;<br />
through Jesus Christ our Lord.</p>
<p align="right"><cite>Additional Collect for All Saints&#8217; Day<br /> is <a href="http://www.cofe.anglican.org/" alt="Link to Church of England Website" title="Link to Church of England Website">Copyright © The Archbishops Council</a></cite></p>
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		<title>True Friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[True Friend I found this story really quite moving. I was left wondering if I would have the courage to be such a friend. As with so many of these I have no idea whether it&#8217;s a true story or not; but don&#8217;t think that matters too much. True Friend Horror gripped the heart of [...]]]></description>
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<p><span id="title-link"><a href="http://www.paulsibley.net/" alt="link back to blog">True Friend</a></span></p>
<p><span class="drop-cap">I</span> found this story really quite moving. I was left wondering if I would have the courage to be such a friend.</p>
<p>As with so many of these I have no idea whether it&#8217;s a true story or not; but don&#8217;t think that matters too much.</p>
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<p><strong>True Friend</strong></p>
<p>Horror gripped the heart of the World War One soldier as he saw his lifelong friend fall in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his lieutenant if he might go out into the &#8220;no man&#8217;s land&#8221; between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.</p>
<p>&#8220;You can go,&#8221; said the lieutenant, &#8220;but I don&#8217;t think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your life away.&#8221; </p>
<p>The lieutenant&#8217;s advice didn&#8217;t matter, and the soldier went anyway. Miraculously he managed to reach his friend, hoist him onto his shoulder and bring him back to their company&#8217;s trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, and then looked kindly at his friend.</p>
<p>&#8220;I told you it wouldn&#8217;t be worth it,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Your friend is dead and you are mortally wounded.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;It was worth it, though, sir,&#8221; said the soldier. </p>
<p>&#8220;What do you mean; worth it?&#8221; responded the Lieutenant. &#8220;Your friend is dead&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;YES, Sir&#8221; the private answered. &#8220;But it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive and I had the satisfaction of hearing him say, &#8220;JIM&#8230;&#8230;.., I KNEW YOU&#8217;D COME.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life. May each and every one of you be blessed with the company of TRUE FRIENDS. A true friend is one who walks in, when the rest of the world walks out. War doesn&#8217;t determine who&#8217;s right. War only determines who&#8217;s left.</p></div>
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		<title>Inspire us to follow their example</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 12:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Inspire us to follow their example Today, November 1st, is All Saints&#8217; Day. Many Churches, who don&#8217;t have a daily celebration, will be transferring this major feast day to tomorrow, so that it can be celebrated on a Sunday. That&#8217;s what we do at Godmanchester. When you look at the Common Worship lectionary you can [...]]]></description>
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<p><span id="title-link"><a href="http://www.paulsibley.net/" alt="link back to blog">Inspire us to follow their example</a></span></p>
<p>Today, November 1st, is All Saints&#8217; Day. Many Churches, who don&#8217;t have a daily celebration, will be transferring this major feast day to tomorrow, so that it can be celebrated on a Sunday. That&#8217;s what we do at Godmanchester. </p>
<p>When you look at the Common Worship lectionary you can tell how important this feast is. The lectionary allows for a celebration of All Saints&#8217; Day on the actual day, today; or on the nearest Sunday, tomorrow; or even on both days.</p>
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<p>The clocks went back last weekend, which means the darkness closes in around us earlier, and the nights seem so much longer. November can be a time of despair; fallen leaves, rain, dampness and fog, with little else ahead but the dismal winter. But the festival of All Saints&#8217; shines like a ray of sunshine at the beginning of these dark days.</p>
<p>All Saints&#8217; Day brings to mind the ordinary people down the ages who were friends of God. The people who didn&#8217;t hold important positions in life. Their names don&#8217;t appear on the Church&#8217;s official role of honour. They&#8217;re not canonized saints. But God remembers them.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re the common people from all walks of life, who in their day tried to live the Christian life to the full. They&#8217;re our family, and our friends. And, like us, they experienced the trials of growing up, the tensions of living with others, and all the normal difficulties and uncertainties of life. They had to cope with their own personal problems and weaknesses. However great their difficulties and faults, they accepted that God loved them and relied on the strength of that love more than anything else.</p>
<p>As we follow in the steps of our friends and family, saints, who have gone before us; we also get a glimpse into our own glorious future, our eternal destiny. As we honour the vast army of God&#8217;s friends, we also ask God&#8217;s favour, that where they are now, so we too may be in the future. We pray that one day this will be our feast as well.</p>
<blockquote><p>God of holiness,<br />
your glory is proclaimed in every age:<br />
as we rejoice in the faith of your saints,<br />
inspire us to follow their example<br />
with boldness and joy;<br />
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.</p>
<p align="right"><cite>All Saints&#8217; Day<br /> is <a href="http://www.cofe.anglican.org/" alt="Link to Church of England Website" title="Link to Church of England Website">Copyright © The Archbishops Council</a></cite></p>
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